Tuesday, June 2, 2009

5-Day Wrap-up...

Have been busy, busy, busy!

What with the school hols and all, and the kids are at home 24/7, and them asking me, "Are you going to work today, Mommy?" (like a dozen times a day - and that's just in the morning!), I feel like there aren't enough hours in a day this term break.

I've already stocked up the fridge, freezer and pantry to last the first week of the school holidays last Friday, but, I think the stock for milk and fish is already running low!

A lot has been happening, and I've been meaning to blog about this and that, but other commitments seemed to have a strong hold on me in the last few days.

So, now that I have the chance to write, I'd better do it immediately.

I guess I'd better do this chronologically.

Thursday, 28th May 2009

(i) Report Card Day for Hasya and Hilman.

Ayah couldn't make it for Hasya's report as he had a few patients scheduled for his clinic that morning, so, yours truly had to go alone. There weren't many parents when I reached there at 10:30a.m., and there weren't many pupils either as they were given the options of staying home or, going to school, and then following their parents home after the meeting with the class teachers. I guess most pupils opted for the former.

There were quite a number of prefects present though, and I guess they didn't have any choice but to attend school as they were given specific duties to help the teachers for that day.

Surprisingly, "Schoolaholic" Hasya opted to stay at home, and I could sense why. She knew she didn't do as well as the previous years, and she didn't know how to react if her report card were to be handed to her by her teacher personally that day. And frankly speaking, I didn't know how to react, too, when I was handed her report card.

Hasya got 5th place in her class, Syukur alhamdulillah. But, for someone who usually got 1st or 2nd place all this while, 5th place was quite a spirit damper - not just for Hasya, but also for her Mommy. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't upset, nor was I disappointed. I was sad more than anything because I knew she could have done better, and I guess I was partly to be blamed.

I admit that I had not spent as much time with the kids this time revising for their exams, as I did previously. And I had not been that strict with them when it comes to watching TV/DVDs, playing PS2 and reading story books. Hasya seemed to be ONLY doing just that two weeks prior to the exams. My bad. I thought she was ever ready for any exams thrown at her.

Hasya was using the excuse that all her classmates who had beaten her in the exam go for tuitions, and thus, they were more prepared and more advanced than her in all the subjects. Hmmmm, we'll see if that reason would still be valid for the next exams, okay, Hasya?

Because starting after the hols, we're engaging Hanna's former tuition teacher, Mrs Ya*un*ha to be Hasya's home tutor pulak. One thing we realized, the fees now is quite a bomb compared to Hanna's time 2 years ago! Well, for Hasya's sake, insya Allah it'll be worthed every single sen, insya Allah.

Anyway, for Hilman's report, I had to go again in the afternoon, and this time Ayah was there, too.

Hilman was jaga-ing a Std 2 Class when we arrived. There was no queue at his class and Ayah and I managed to see his teacher the second we reached there.

And as expected, Hilman got 1st place in his class. Syukur alhamdulillah. Yang kelakarnya, everytime he saw his friends along the corridor when we were going home, he would ask them their placings in class, and when they told him their placings, he would tell them, "I got 1st place", Hehehe! Those who know Hilman would know that he wasn't bragging or anything like that. To him, it was just an act of sharing information :)

(Come to think of it, Hilman watched as much TV as his Kak Ngah did, if not more, and in fact played PS2 MORE than her...So, how do you explain him getting #1, and Hasya #5?! Hmmmmmm....?)

Anyway, as a lesson, Hasya is not allowed to watch TV/DVD or play PS2 indefinitely. So, for the past few nights Hilman has been dilligently supplying her with all the details of the 10:00pm Naruto show.

And last night, as I was going to the Family Hall on the way to the Master Bedroom, I saw Hasya sitting on the sofa, facing the wall, with her back to the TV. Naruto was on. And I asked her -

Me : Hasya what are you doing staring at the wall?!

Hasya : I'm listening to Naruto, Mommy...

Me : What do you mean?! Hey! You're not supposed to watch TV, okay?!

Hasya : I'm not watching, Mommy. I'm just listening! You said I could not watch TV. I'm not watching, okay Mommy...you didn't say I could not listen to the TV...

I tak tau nak marah or nak tergelak, and I just walked into the room. Ayah who was lying on the bed, heard what Hasya said, and he was trying hard not to laugh. I locked the door behind me, and both of us just burst out laughing!

Hasya...Hasya... Sigh... :)

(ii) Kantoi

Anyway, that evening, Hasya and Hilman were supposed to have mengaji at 8:30pm at their Wan's place, and as usual, right after school all the kids were deposited at my MIL's house.

It was at 8:00p.m, when I received a phone-call from their Ustadz who apologized and told me that he was not able to make it to teach that evening as he had to attend to some "hal mustahak".

In a way, I was quite relieved because I was supposed to go and get the cards and gifts for the kids' teachers for Friday's Teacher's Day Celebration while they were having their mengaji that night. So, immediately upon being informed that the class had been cancelled, I asked the kids to pack their stuff and change their clothes, and off we went to One-U to get the cards and gifts together. Saved me the headaches of choosing everything for them.

Anyway, we reached One-U at 8:45pm, and we were making our way to Me*or* La*e at the Lower Ground Floor when we bumped into......Guess who?!!

Their Ustadz Mengaji!!!

He was outside a gift shop with his daughters and wife. His daughters were obviously looking for cards and gifts for their teachers, too!

Awkward, I tell you. Really awkward... Hehehe!

So as not to make him feel embarrassed, I gave salam to him, and said,

"Ustadz pun kena cari barang untuk Hari Guru, ya? Samalah Kak Shana. Budak-budak ni, selagi tak beli kad dengan hadiah untuk cikgu-cikgu dioghang, selagi tu tak senang duduk! Nak kena beli MALAM NI jugak! Esok tak boleh! Nasib baik juga Ustadz batal kelas malam ni, dapat jugak bawak budak-budak ni untuk pilih sendiri, etc.!

Ustadz pun tersipu-sipu malu. Kesian pulak kat dia. But, I hope he knows that I truly didn't mind him cancelling the class that night.

I'm also a parent of demanding kids. I understand ;)

Anyway, we managed to get 4 cards and 3 gifts each for the three kids to give to their teachers.

Nak harap their Mommy buat cupcakes for their teachers (like a lot of my supermoms blogger friends out there! Bravo!)? Errrrr...tahun depan pun tak leh janji, okay? Hehehe!

Saturday, 30th May 2009

Besides my normal supir duties - sending and fetching kids to/from Chess, Guitar, and Swimming Lesson, that night Ayah and I sent Hanna and her friend Mira to Bukit Jalil for the Relay for Life event.

We decided to while the time away by going to Endah Parade. We were there at 9:20pm and decided to leave the place shortly after that.

How do I say this? Errrr...that was the first and the last time we would go there. That place was so....errrr...so-NOT-my-cuppa-tea laah!

So, while waiting for midnite - the time we told Hanna and Mira we would fetch them, we decided to go to my Sis Lala's place in Keramat, only to find that the whole family had gone to have dinner at my BIL's Kak Ngah's place in Hillview. So, my BIL invited us to join them at his Kak Ngah's house. All the usual suspects were there. (They are actually our second set of Majlis Tertinggi - the family version, who meet nearly every Saturday Night for PotLuck thingies at my Sis Lala's place in Keramat).

We left Hillview just before midnite and went straight to Bukit Jalil to fetch the girls, reaching home just before 1:00a.m.

Sunday, 31st May 2009

Supir duty again!

Morning - Sent and fetched Hasya and Hilman to and from their Dance Class.

Afternoon - Sent Hasya and Hilman to Royale Bintang Hotel (The Curve) for a birthday party, while Ayah sent Hanna to Kg Tunku for her Taekwondo training. She's competing in the MSSD Sports Meet later this month, insya Allah.

Evening - I fetched Hanna from taekwondo training, while Ayah fetched Hasya and Hilman from Royale Bintang...(Hehehe! Saja tukar angin :))

After Maghrib, we left for One-U to watch the 9:30pm show of "Night at the Museum II".

I tell you, it has been quite some time since I last had such a good laugh at the movies! Highly recommended. Memang a great stress-buster that movie!

Monday, 1st June 2009

My Abah and Mommy are staying with us the whole of this week, as it is my turn to bring Abah for his radiotherapy treatment at GH.

Abah has been going to GH on a daily basis for the last 3 weeks for his radiotherapy treatment (except for weekends and Public Holidays) and all this while, my Sis Lala has been bringing him to the hospital. It has been quite a convenient arrangement as her place in Keramat is so much nearer to GH, and as Lala is a SAHM, her daily schedule is rather flexible. Abah and Mommy had been staying over at Lala's place, and she has been attending to all Abah's and Mommy's needs for the last three weeks. God bless her! :)

However, we have to make another arrangement for this week as Lala and her family have gone to Bandung/Jakarta (they left this afternoon) for a family getaway.

As it is already the Semester Break for the Uni, my schedule is also quite flexible now, and after seeking permission from my HoD, I've been allowed to take time off in the morning so that I could bring Abah to the hospital for his treatment, and only go to the office after lunch.

As I'm writing this, Abah has another 4 radiotherapy sessions to go to, before he starts on a couple of brachytherapy treatment sessions, insya Allah.

Abah is responding very well to the treatment, in fact, he's doing MUCH, MUCH better than he did when he had to go through the same treatment when he was dignosed with his first NPC in 1995. Syukur alhamdulillah.

His face does not have any burnt marks, and he has not lost the ability to taste food as he did in 1995. In fact, it gives me great pleasure to see him eat A LOT everytime I cook for him and the family :) My Mommy said he has been eating a lot more than he normally would when he was at home since he stayed at Lala's and now, at our place. I'm really glad :)

He spends most of his time on the sajaddah, berwirid and berzikir after solat, and other times in front of the TV, changing the channels every minute or so :) So, the kids have been warned by moi to NOT kacau Jaddi in the living room when he's watching TV (or most of the times, the TV watching him! Hehehe!) Anyway, as Hasya is OFF TV now, there's no risk of Hilman and Hasya fighting over which channels to watch on the upstairs' TV.

Next week, my brother Eddie will be bringing Abah for his final radiotherapy session on Monday, and thereafter for his brachytherapy as we pulak will be away for 6 days.

Where are we heading to?

Remember my posting on our planned Bali trip dulu? Yup! It's next week, and we're leaving this Saturday. Ayah will be away in Cambodia this Thursday and coming back on Friday, and he'll be sending us to the airport. Ayah will only be joining us in Bali on Monday, insya Allah.

So, in case some of you were wondering why laaaaarrr this posting is SUPER-LONG, this explains this longer-than-usual posting - I'm trying to make up for my possible non-blogging week the whole of next week. Takut ada yang rindu kat I pulak nanti...Heheheh :)

We are so looking forward to the trip, but I am so not looking forward to the packing, y'all. But, what to do? Can't rely on the kids to do it, can I? Nanti ada pulak yang tak cukup benda-benda kecik nak pakai kat Bali pulak nanti... ;)

See you all the later part of next week, okay?


(Land of The Barong!!! Here we come!!!!!!)


Naz in Norway said...

Hi Darling!
You got an award from me...but seriously, tak yah buat la. Kita tau awak busy sakan. al maklum....

tireless mom said...

Hi Shana

Memang super busy lah awak ni. Take it easy on the children ok. Do better next semester. Happy holidays and have fun "Barong"ing.

Madam Tai Tai Again said...

Hi Shana,

Have a wonderful time in Bali! It is truly a 'magical' island.

Kesian Ustaz terkantoi.. I guess he will tell the truth next time! ;-)

MHB said...

Salam sis!! hmmmm... rasa macam miss my late dad pulak when you write about yours... yours is lucky indeed to have such wonderful children!!

you have a good time!!

ummisara said...


Kelakar lah ustaz kantoiiii...kekekek

Have a wonderful stay in Bali...

Amy said...

COngrats on your kid's result, am glad your dad is doing better. And have fun in Bali, ambik gambar banyak2! :)

MrsNordin said...

Have a good time in Bali!! We planned to go there too this school hols, but last minute, my husband tak boleh cuti. So upset!

bella said...

Kak Shana, Selamat bercuti...wishing MrDoc, you, the girls and Hilman..enjoy and have fun!!!!enjoy the view there...and bask in their culture...enjoy Kak!!!

Desert Rose said...

Kak Shana dearie,

Baru nak tanya when la u all nak pi Bali...ha ha.

Take a deep breath, and have a pleasant vacation in Bali....

Shopping tu jgn lupa tgl duit utk air port tax tau, karang ada yg kena tinggal he he..

Dah naik plak tu , pandai plak indon ni cekik darah

ibu,mommy,mom... said...

have a wonderful holiday...eee bestnya

ms hart said...

Shana, legaaaa....ada jugak gang yang 'tahun depan pun tak boleh janji' can bake cupcakes for our kids' teachers!!! Gimme 5!!!;-) heh heh

Have a wonderful holiday in Bali, ok?

jabishah said...

Have a safe trip! Am sure you will enjoy Bali esp ber baronging shopping ;-) Don't forget the photos k...

wanshana said...

Hi Naz,

Thank you...thank you!

I read your posting on it the same day you notified me, but, tak sempat nak buat lagi, dear :(

If you don't mind, nanti post-Bali trip I bayar hutang tag you, okay?

Take care! :)

wanshana said...

Hi Kak Yatt @ TM,

Thank you :)

Hmmmm, I'm not as busy as you are, my dear :)!

Yes, I'm taking it easy on the kids. I'm saving all the drilling and grilling after our Bali trip. Hehehe!

Are you back from Singapore already? Dah beli segala benda wajib to beli? ;) Don't think too long or too much. Beli ajer, Kak Yatt... :)


wanshana said...

Hi Gina,

Thank you, insya Allah :)

Yes, it's a wonderful place. Hasya and Hilman yang excited coz' this will be their first time to Indonesia - kampung Bibik Dar! Hehehe!

Yes, kesian kat Ustadz. I yang serba salah. I siap pesan kat the kids NOT to mention that incident when they saw him for lesson kelmarin. Hope next time he'll just come up front, kan?

wanshana said...

Salam MHB,

Thanks :)

Yes, I sedih bila tengok my Dad - how he enjoys his food, and how would nod off in front of the TV, etc. I spent most of my growing up years away from home, and now terasa how little time I've spent with him and my Mom...

I'm sure your Arwah father was very proud of you and your siblings, and I'm sure you had done so much for him when he was around.

I know that you're a great daughter :)

wanshana said...


Thanks, dear :)

Yes, kesian kat Ustadz...

I think sure dia cringe everytime dia teringat that kantoi incident. I hope, he'll get over it soon :)

wanshana said...

Hi Amy,

Thanks, and thanks :)

Yes, my Dad is doing well, syukur alhamdulillah. Today will be his second last radiotherapy treatment. On Monday, my brother will be bringing him for the last session.

As for his 2 brachytherapy sessions, apparently he would have to be warded pre and post treatment. They've not given us the dates yet. We make do'a that this treatment will not have any serious side effects on him. It's his first time to undergo brachytherapy.

Yes - we'll take loads of pics in Bali, insya Allah :)

wanshana said...


Thank you, dear.

It's okay...ada hikmahnya. Insya Allah ada rezqi next time. Maybe when Nizzar can appreciate it more?

BJ, was it in Bali when you stayed dekat sawah bendang tu? Because the second hotel we're going to is situated in a vast padi field - Fu*am* Ubud.

wanshana said...

Hi Bella,

Thank you, thank you :)

I'm sure we'll have a great time basking in all the culture, sightseeing (and shopping, of course! Hehehe!)

Hasya and Hilman will be attending Balinese Dances workshop for 4 days there, and they're going to perform on the final night there together with the local children. It'll be an amazing experience for them, and us, too, I'm sure :)

wanshana said...

Desert Rose,

Thank you, dear. I'm sure we'll have a lovely time there :) Yang tak best sikit - Ayah will only be joining us on Monday afternoon. I ni kalau jejalan without him, macam rasa semangat tu hilang somewhat (sebab tak de orang nak angkat bag segala...Hahaha!)

Oh ya...thank you, too, for the reminder on the airport tax. I ni kalau shopping nanti, sure dah tak ingat dunia...ini kan la pulak airport tax! Hehehe! How much is it now, ya? Nak kena asing awal-awal :)

Have a great weekend!

wanshana said...

Ibu, Mommy, Mom,

Thank you, thank you...Insya Allah :)

Enjoy your weekend!

wanshana said...


Thank you, dear :)

Yessss! Hi-5!!!

Errr...bukan setakat tahun depan aje kot? Dua tahun lagi, dulu, kini dan selamanya kot? Hahaha!

wanshana said...

Hi Ja,

Thank you...insya Allah :)

Yup! Loads of photos. I just hope nanti I tak give up masa nak upload gambar to share in this blog and FB. Sampai tumbuh uban kekadang tu... :)

Have a great weekend, dear!

Desert Rose said...

Kak Shana darling,

150,000 RUPIAH....

rm54 camtulah. Have fun.

dillazag said...

You've been chosen to receive the Uber Amazing Blog Award and you've also been tagged sista. Rajin-rajin jawab, ya!

Dalam Dakapan Ibu said...

Hi Shana,
Have a safe trip to Bali. Enjoy!

I tergelak sakan baca pasal ustaz kena kantoi tu. Nak buat macamana, anak-anak sekarang very demanding..hehehe..

wanshana said...

Desert Rose laling,

Thank you :)

Hmmmm...banyak jugak tu boleh shopping, kan? RM54x5 = RM270.

Nampak gayanya nak kena suruh Ayah tukar duit sikit lagi lah ni - khas untuk airport tax. Duit yang dah dalam tangan sekarang, 100% untuk jolly katak...Hehehe!

(Teruknyer I!!!)

wanshana said...

Dear Dilla,

Thank you so much for the award. Terharu I! (Sniffles snuffles...). Naz nun kat Norway pun gave me the same award and tag - so now I owe you and Naz a posting.

Insya Allah balik from Bali nanti, I buat tag ni, ya, Naz? Ya Dilla? :)

Thank you so much again for the award, dearies :)

wanshana said...

Dear Ja @ DDI,

Thank you...insya Allah :)

Tu lah tu! I really didn't know how to react when I saw Pak Ustadz in One-U malam tu. Tu dia haaaa...anak ustadz pun demanding! Hehehe!

Ummi365 said...

try nasi lemak village park, dekat je kan with your house. we had that too last week. memang betul apa you kata NL international not to my liking too. i prefer yang jual kat stall tepi jalan.

Unknown said...

hi!hi!...Shana itu Kngah..banyak kreatif yeee....kita pun tegelak sesorang nih!...nilah yg dikatakan..kekadaang anak2 ni...madu dan racun!.

and Tahniah untk abg Man juger..

Waaeeeee...selamat bercuti - libur-lebur..hihi!!...bestnye!!!

Anonymous said...

Ustaz is still human. I have a fair share experience with young ustaz ngajar ngaji kat rumah. He left my kids after 2 months. Not contactable by phone. Weeks later, my daughter terserempak dengan dia pergi ngajar ngaji kat rumah my neighbour.

Amy said...

Kak Shana, you've been awarded 'Uber Amazing Blog' walaupun Kak Dilla have also awarded you with the same. So lagi la perlu utk buat tag tu ye? Hihih..

wanshana said...

Hi Ummi,

Nasi lemak village park tu kat mana, ya? Kalau dekat-dekat my place boleh gak try one of these days, insya Allah.

My kids dah boring...every Sunday when they wake up they're greeted by Nasi Lemak Bibik. I think they want to try something new pulak - either a new kind of nasi lemak, OR a totally non-nasi lemak breakfast! :)

wanshana said...

Hi Eta :)

Thank you...dah balik dari berlibur dah ni...tapi, still holiday mood :(

You're right about the kids - they can create a lot of headaches but at the same time they are the ones who will make the headaches dissipate in mere seconds, kan? :)

wanshana said...

Dear Anonymous@10:32a.m,

Hmmmm...sometimes we wonder why la cannot come up front and just tell it straight to our face, kan? If dah tak nak or tak boleh conduct classes tu, just tell us lah kan? We can't do anything to force them pun - it's a free country, kan? As ustadz pulak tu, they should be truthful about it.

Maybe ada hikmah behind all these. Maybe you'll find a better replacement ustadz for your kids, insya Allah.

wanshana said...

Hi Amy,

Thank you for the Uber Award :) Alahai...tak cukup tangan nak pegang...Hehehe!

Insya Allah will do it soon - bayar hutang you, Dilla and Naz sekali harung :)

Take care, you!

*Dah pindah rumah belum?*

Helena said...

congrats to Hasya and hilman..... cepat dapat report card yer..... maybe my kids this week or next week kut.

My Zaryff came back yesterday and said.... mama, tadi cikgu kasi report card, dia suruh check... then dia suruh pulangkan balik.

I asked, so zaryff dapat no brapa?

Zaryff said.... mama.... zaryff lupa la zaryff dapat no brapa.....

Aik.... boleh lupa *scratching head* sigh.... ini mesti ada something ni....