Monday, March 23, 2009

All is well :)

Dear all,

After much thought, I decided to withdraw both of my postings on Aida Sophea as everything was obviously a misunderstanding, and the poor girl obviously did not mean what she wrote in the comment box that day. Her dear Mommy had left a comment to explain and clarify everything, and I would like to share what she wrote to set the records straight.

Some of you might have read her Mommy's comment just before I withdrew the postings, but I’m posting it here again so that those who did not get the chance to read Aida Sophea’s Mommy’s explanation would know what actually happened, okay? :)

I would like to thank her for from the bottom of my heart for giving us their side of the story – it sure was and is a relief to finally be able to put everything together, my dear :)

This was what Aida Sofea's Mommy (or as her Mommy calls her - "Sophie") wrote -


Dear Ms Shana,

As I'm writing this, I just can't describe my feelings....am I supposed to be ashamed..(don't think I should tho), or guilty? But somehow I'm a bit amused by the comments from others. I apologised on behalf of my 8-year-old, believe me, she's shaking beside me right now, shaken by the repercussion of her action. My two daughters - they blog, and i don't get to even monitor the blogs as my time is limited-(of coz as most of the time that i chanced on surfing would be spent on reading yur blog), plus the fact that I'm not IT savvy, thus their blogs also have wrong time settings -which i've told them to correct it later (on their own) when i'm done typing this. My 8 yr-young daughter did that out of innocence-she did't even know that it would be read by you or anybody and to be frank, she never knew the content of yur blog either. And her own blog-just nak ikut2 her sister only. And my children-all 3 of them lights off at 10.30 every nite- school days or holidays the same.

Anyway, tho I dont blog, n have to ‘pinjam’ google account solely to straighten things out, I read yur blog almost everyday, whenever I have the chance- I luv it, esp yr luv story in KPP where I was once a student there. And those mentioned in yr blog, tho we're fr diff schools, I know most of them. My 8 yr young- who alwaiz saw me reading thru yr blog--mmg rase pelik, she would alwaiz ask me- why r u reading wanshana? who is she? So i guess she visited yr blog when i was at work...and...did what she did...she apologised as well..in her blog.

And to others out there, don’t worry, this is not an addition to those pshycos out there, my little girl is perfectly normal....

March 20, 2009 4:21 PM



And I've also read the sweet apology Lil' Sophie had written on her blog. And I think you all should read it here, too.

She REALLY is a good girl, and so adorable :) And like her Mommy said - perfectly normal :)

All is well, now.

Thank you, Sophie, and Sophie's Mommy :)

(((((HUGS)))))

13 comments:

Desert Rose said...

Kak shana,

Tq 4 removing d posting, coz aunty Rose here also is so sorry....Wish her all d best also. (aiyohhh *tepuk2 dahi*)

Amy said...

Alahh...what did I missed? :(

Anonymous said...

Whatever. This whole thing was just so petty. Seriously, it's cyberspace, far worse things has happened. Miss Wanshana, you're a grown woman, don't you have better things to do than dedicating a post to 8-year-old?

wanshana said...

Desert Rose,

Not at all. It's best to be erased and forgotten :)

And I'm sure, her Mommy will convey the apology to her :)

wanshana said...

Amy,

Nothing major - just a small matter which has been resolved :)

wanshana said...

Anonymous,

Yes, it was a petty thing which was caused by a misunderstanding. But, that doesn't mean that I should not set the records straight.

I'm not sure if you really had the chance to read the said two postings and the comments in them, to really understand what went on.

This posting is meant for the girl and her Mom, and as a grown woman who has children of her own, and if something like this were to happen to us, I would hope that the other side would clear the air by doing the right thing.

And as a grown woman, I think this is the right thing to do.

And as the blog owner, I think I can write or dedicate any postings to anyone I want, no?

But, thank you for giving your opinion on the matter anyway.

Anonymous said...

What have I missed again? Aiya...

And what is wrong with dedicating a blog entry for an 8 year old? For a woman, a mother - any one whatever age - is worth every attention if needs be.

I don't think one is grown up enough if one thinks this world is only made up of only grown ups! Sighhh....

Just wait till someone have a kid of his/her own. Baru tau rasa cam mana nak jaga hati anak2. Sigh....

Hugs
Ibu
(yes... yg dah beranak pinak, and with the whole blog dedicated for all her children, including one who is barely 6 years old.... and so what? That's petty too? Aiyerrr...)

MAMAMIA said...

Whatever I've missed, I'm glad that all is well again...

Forgive & forget, that's the best thing to do.

wanshana said...

Ibu,

Terima kasih kerana memberi khidmat pemidato terbaik anda di sini! Hehehe! REALLY appreciate it, dear. You said it so rightly.

But, some people aaaarrr...

wanshana said...

Thanks, Mamamia.

Yes - forgive and forget :), and continue with our lives with a clear conscience that everyting that should and could be done, had been done, and hoping that nobody out there would prolong the matter by trying to look at it from an irrelevant angle altogether :)

zue said...

Hai shana, Kak Zue here..Alor Staq. What did I miss? Kak Zue selalu jugak baca what you wrote and some of the stories relate to my life too as a mother, and I felt, thank God, I am not the only one.... but lately been busy so tak sempat.

wanshana said...

Hi Kak Zue!!!

So nice to see you hear!!! When was the last time we saw each other, ya? Was it at one of our dinners a few years back? My, my...:)

How's Aloq Staq? Waaa, Kak Zue dah terrer speaking Kedah naaa? And I see that la ni Kak Zue dok sibuk bakaq sama peghiaih kek naa? Hehehe!

I'll definitely hop by there dengan kadar selalu from now on, insya Allah.

*As for the thing you missed - it's a small issue ajer :)

Eta My said...

Shana..opppss..entah apelah yg kita ter'miss'....petty or not....tak pe lah..yg penting sikalang semua sudah okay....

rase dah lame tak menjenguk blog kekawan....